Conversations with the ex:
Me (about a friend of mine): I don't know. We just met a few months ago and we clicked instantly and we're good friends now.
Him: That's nice. It's rare to find people who click and become like you and me.
Me: No, you and I... We're much closer than that. We bonded over grapes and candles and music.
Him: True.

And maybe that's how I'll know when the next serious relationship comes along... When we find ourselves sharing grapes chatting way into the night.