- the one you love the most,
- the one who loves you the most,
- and the one you end up marrying.
As for me, it feels as if I've met only one of the three... and I just don't feel quite capable of "loving as if I've never been hurt before" any more. And right now,if I had to choose, I'd rather that the guy I marry - whoever and wherever he is - ends up loving me more than I love him. I'd rather that because I know having it the other way round sucks big-time.