I have something to confess: I like things a little rough.

I like to wrestle, and I like when the other party's a little forceful. I like the feeling when you're (not painfully) slammed against the wall before being passionately kissed. I also like the feeling when you're pinned beneath the other person after you've been trying like hell to get away.

Of course, this only applies to people I'm attracted to.

This isn't something I've ever mentioned to anyone - not even my then-boyfriends. It's just not something that I feel fits in with the kind of person that I usually am. Also, it's not something I feel my then-partner expects - or would even welcome.